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Explore How Conflict Shows Up in the Body
Join Stephen Porges, Deb Dana, Frank Anderson and more to explore how conflict lives in the nervous system and how repair becomes possible, from the therapy room to society as a whole.
This course provides the recordings from our 2026 International Gathering. Access all three days of presentations, discussions, and panels.
What's Included?
Almost 16 hours of content, featuring nine lectures and three panel discussions. All learners have access to the recordings and course materials for one year.
- Day 1 covers relational conflict and clinical repair
- Day 2 explores the body, attachment, and power
- Day 3 addresses social, cultural, and political conflict.
Who is this course for?
For therapists, counselors, and helping professionals, and for anyone exploring how nervous-system science applies to conflict in relationships, organizations, and communities.
- A general understanding of Polyvagal Theory is recommended for anyone interested in purchasing this course.
What is included in this course?
See a full breakdown of the presentations below!
Curriculum
Day 1: Relational conflict and clinical repair
Passive Abuse Is Still Abuse: A Polyvagal and Trauma-Informed Perspective
Frank Anderson, MD
Covers how emotional neglect, withdrawal, and chronic invalidation shape the nervous system and attachment, and how therapeutic interventions can support repair.
Resource Activation in Difficult Times
Woltemade Hartman, PhD
A workshop combining polyvagal theory, yoga, clinical hypnosis, breathwork, and Somatic Experiencing to help clients restore safety and access inner resources. Includes a clinical demonstration.
Mapping Autonomic Insecurity Derived from Relationship Cutoffs
Enrique Arellano Farias
Explores family and relationship estrangement through a polyvagal lens, offering therapists a framework for recognizing how abandonment and betrayal register in the body and for guiding clients toward reconciliation.
Inter-relational Conflict: A Panel Discussion
Frank Anderson, Verena König, George Thompson
A panel conversation on conflict between people.
From Dysregulation to Repair: A Q&A on Conflict, Co-Regulation, and Clinical Practice
Deb Dana, LCSW
Deb Dana answers attendee questions on conflict, co-regulation, and clinical practice.
Day 2: The body, attachment, and power
From Social Submission to Emotional Manipulation: How Appeasement and Fawn Responses Shape Our Relationships
Verena König
Examines how early attachment trauma turns social engagement into survival strategies, from dependency to manipulation, and how to move toward authentic connection.
The System Lives in the Body: How History and Power Shape Nervous Systems in Conflict
Stephen Hanmer D’Elía, JD, LCSW
Looks at conflict under unequal power, reframing regulation as the capacity to mobilize, settle, and reconnect, and arguing that real change means changing the conditions bodies live in.
When Conflict Lives on the Surface: Skin, Relational Rupture, and the Biology of Repair
Keira Barr, MD
Introduces the skin as a boundary, a messenger, and a site of repair in how the nervous system navigates conflict.
The Future of Polyvagal Theory: Regulatory Architecture – Embodiment, Intervention, Persistence, and Recovery
Stephen Porges, PhD, with Karen Onderko, Michael Allison, and George Thompson
The originator of polyvagal theory discusses where the theory is headed, followed by audience Q&A.
Day 3: Social, cultural, and political conflict
Holding the Heat: Navigating Racial and Social Conflict with Resilience
Eugene Ellis
Explores how race-based stress lives in the body and drives reactivity or collapse, with exercises for staying present at the edges of discomfort.
The Nervous System of Democracy: Exploring Collective Trauma, Personal Resilience, and Civic Renewal
Kate Woodsome
A Pulitzer-winning journalist offers a framework for understanding political crises through nervous-system science, with a practical path toward personal and democratic renewal.
Social, Cultural & Political Conflict: A Panel Conversation
Stephen Hanmer D’Elía, Kate Woodsome, Eugene Ellis; moderated by Antonija Čerkez Ivković
A panel conversation applying the day’s themes to conflict across communities and societies. (Needs a description.)
Your Instructors
Frank Anderson, MD, completed his residency and was a clinical instructor in psychiatry at Harvard Medical School. He is both a psychiatrist and psychotherapist who specializes in the treatment of trauma and dissociation. He is passionate about teaching brain-based psychotherapy and integrating current neuroscience knowledge with the Internal Family Systems (IFS) model of therapy.
Dr. Anderson is a senior lead trainer and program consultant for the IFS Institute with Richard Schwartz and maintains a long affiliation with Bessel van der Kolk at The Trauma Research Center. He serves as an advisor to the International Association of Trauma Professionals (IATP) and was the former chair and director of the Foundation for Self Leadership.
Stephen W. Porges, PhD, is a behavioral neuroscientist and the originator of
Polyvagal Theory, a framework linking autonomic regulation to emotion, social
behavior, and health. He is Distinguished University Scientist at the Kinsey Institute,
Indiana University, where he is the founding director of the Traumatic Stress
Research Consortium, and serves as Professor of Psychiatry at the University of North Carolina. He holds emeritus professorial appointments at the University of Maryland and the University of Illinois College of Medicine, and is Courtesy Professor in the Department of Psychiatry, University of Florida College of Medicine in Jacksonville.
Professor Porges’ interdisciplinary research has reshaped understanding of how autonomic state influences social engagement, emotion regulation, and health, with broad implications for trauma, neurodevelopment, and mind-body medicine. He has authored over 400 peer-reviewed scientific publications, which have been cited in more than 65,000 scholarly works.
Verena König is a trauma therapist, seminar leader, podcaster, and author. She completed trainings in Systemic Therapy and Constellation Work, as well as numerous psychotraumatology certifications, including Ego-State Therapy, Trauma Touch, EMDR, Brainspotting, and Polyvagal-Informed Practice. She is the founder and CEO of König Weiterbildungen GmbH. Verena König has published numerous podcast episodes and blog articles and is the author of the longtime bestsellers “Bin ich traumatisiert” ("Am I Traumatized") and "Trauma und Beziehungen" ("Trauma and Relationships"). She offers seminars and further training, as well as comprehensive online courses for trauma-affected individuals. Her professional practice includes over 20 years of experience in individual sessions, seminars, and supervision. Among her teachers are Dr. Woltemade Hartman, Dr. Karl Heinz Brisch, Kathy Kain, Deb Dana, Michaela Huber, Dr. Lutz U. Besser, and Dr. Raja Selvam. Verena König lives and works in the Odenwald region of Germany.
Woltemade Hartman is a Clinical and Educational Psychologist and psychotherapist from Pretoria, South Africa. He is a clinician, consultant, and experienced international trainer specialising in working with PTSD and complex trauma-related disorders. He has worked extensively with survivors of trauma, torture, war and human rights violations in various countries and regions of the world. He has also served in an advisory capacity to politicians and political parties worldwide.Dr Hartman is the Founding Director of the Milton H. Erickson Institutes of South Africa (MEISA). He is the founder and Past-president of Ego State Therapy International and currently serves as Secretary and Treasurer of Ego State Therapy International (ESTI).
Eugene Ellis is a psychotherapist, writer and public speaker, and an Honorary Fellow of the United Kingdom Council for Psychotherapy. For many years, he has worked with severely traumatised children and their families in the field of adoption, with a particular interest in body-oriented practice and facilitating the healing of trauma.
He is the director and founder of the Black, African and Asian Therapy Network, the UK's largest independent organisation specialising in therapeutic work with Black, African, Caribbean and Asian people, with almost 2,000 members.
Deb Dana, LCSW, is a clinician, consultant, author and speaker. Her work is focused on using the lens of Polyvagal Theory to understand and resolve the impact of trauma in our lives. She is a founding member of the Polyvagal Institute, consultant to Khiron Clinics, and advisor to Unyte.
Deb’s work shows how an understanding of Polyvagal Theory is applicable across the board to relationships, mental health, and trauma. She delves into the intricacies of how we can all use an understanding of the organizing principles of Polyvagal Theory to change the ways we navigate our daily lives.
Deb is well known for translating Polyvagal Theory into a language and application that is both clear and accessible and for pioneering Rhythm of Regulation® methodology, tools, techniques and practices which continue to open up the power of Polyvagal Theory for professionals and curious people from diverse backgrounds and all walks of life.
Enrique Arellano is a Certified Body-Psychotherapist, Psychologist, Publisher and a Continuing Education provider. He is based in Spain, and has been working in the field of Integrative psychotherapy for the past 25 years.
Enrique has worked to introduce and spread Polyvagal Theory through books, media outreach, and education. His organization has been an International Partner with Polyvagal Institute since 2020 and a partner with Deb Dana’s trainings for clinical practice since 2019.
Dr. Keira Barr is a double board-certified dermatologist, psychodermatology expert, and internationally recognized educator specializing in the intersection of dermatology, neuroscience, and patient behavior. With more than 20 years of clinical experience and advanced training in mind-body medicine, Dr. Barr works with individuals, patient advocacy groups and organizations to champion skin
and mental health as public health issues. Her work with pharmaceutical and biotech partners centers on improving patient engagement, adherence, retention, and real-world outcomes.
Dr. Barr's work translates the science of stress, trauma, and mind–skin pathways into practical strategies that enhance patient trust, strengthen adherence to long-term therapies, elevate the quality of patient-facing education and help individuals feel safe living in their own skin.
Stephen Hanmer D’Elía is a therapist, social worker, writer, and policy and program consultant working across clinical practice, child protection, and institutional change.
For more than twenty-five years, Stephen has worked with children, young people, and families and designed policies and programs for the systems that shape their lives. His work has taken him across five continents, from therapy rooms and child welfare agencies to refugee camps, conflict zones, and international institutions including UNICEF. He currently maintains a private psychotherapy practice in New York City and consults on child and family policy, program design, and organizational change.
Kate Woodsome is a Pulitzer Prize–winning journalist and founder and director of the Invisible Threads Impact Lab, building the human and relational capacity democracy depends on.
For two decades, Woodsome reported and led global news teams for Voice of America, Al Jazeera English, and The Washington Post, covering upheaval from Cuba to Cambodia, Hong Kong to Washington, DC. Reporting on the January 6 U.S. Capitol attack left her with complex PTSD and a visceral understanding of how trauma is a cause and effect of polarization. After her team won the Pulitzer Prize for Public Service, she left traditional journalism, unwilling to perpetuate a culture that treats trauma as the price of truth.